The Sibling Fight Class Nobody Taught You
Sibling School
5 Lessons. 1 Clear plan.
Introducing the class where you learn what to do (and how to stay calm) when your kids fight, so you finally get some peace
What to do in the heat of the moment when you hear fighting or bickering
Exactly what to say during tattling, mean words, sharing, etc
Why your kids are fighting (no matter what you do)
You know the moments well...
When you hear a fight break out from the other room again. When one of them snatches a toy and the other one freaks out.
When they bicker on repeat. When one yells "it's not fair!".
When they can't seem to play without a problem every few minutes.
You feel like you can't leave the room or start the day without hearing them fight and bicker again.
The moments when chaos fill the house.
You've tried separating them, telling them over and over not to fight, threaten to take something away...but within 20 minutes it's happening again
You've tried everything but nothing is stopping the fights and you're left wondering if this is just the way it is...
Am I making it worse? Are they ever going to get along?
And the worst part?
You're doing it all alone. Googling "How to stop my kids from fighting?" and trying things you read somewhere, but putting all the pieces together is so hard.
You're trying to figure it all out on your own, and it's overwhelming and exhausting.
Here's the truth no one tells you
Most of what we instinctively do when kids fight is actually adding fuel to the fire, making the fighting worse
Not because you are a bad parent, or have bad kids. But because no one gave you instructions.
Without instructions, you're left just trying the same things over and over, without getting anywhere
Nothing will change if your approach stays the same
The same frustrations keep coming up over and over
You keep feeling overwhelmed and wondering if this is just life now
Enter your bullet points here..
The worry about your kids ever getting along just lingers
You can't even enjoy time together as a family
Enter your bullet points here..
Don't stay stuck in the same conflict 6 months from now.
I created Sibling School to give you the short, actionable lesson plans I wish someone handed me when I had my kids.
Sibling School gives you the lesson plan you should have got when you had multiple kids
Plain and simple: Your kids won't magically stop fighting on their own. And you won't magically know how to handle it any better by piecing together information on your own.
After working with over 65 parents in my full sibling program, I have realized a few key concepts that, once you understand, completely change how you approach the fighting forever.
Which is why Sibling School shows you...
Exactly what to say and do in the heat of the moment (that actually reduces conflict)
The 6 hidden patterns causing more fights, and how to eliminate them so the conflict reduces
Why it's so hard to stay calm, and a plan that works in the moment
Ut Repellat Officiis
Est Velit In Nisi
After 5 Lessons inside
Sibling School
Gain confidence knowing exactly what to say and do
Know the exact reasons your kids are fighting
Have a plan to stay calm during the chaos
Let go of the guilt you feel for how you react
Enjoy time with your family because you're not walking around waiting for the next fight
Join Sibling School
The next fight is coming. For $34, you can be ready for it
$99 $34
SECURE
CHECKOUT
MONEY BACK
GUARANTEE
Inside you will find:
Short, actionable video lessons
Printable PDF Support guides for each lesson
Immediate and lifetime access
Maybe you've had thoughts like...
"Are my kids just bad?"
I can assure you of one thing - you don't have bad kids. And you are not a bad parent. There are real tangible reasons hiding underneath your children's actions. And we can change them.
Enter your bullet points here..
"Maybe it's too late. Is there anything I can do?"
When you change your approach, behaviour changes - it's as simple as that. It's never too late to equip yourself with the tools you never had.
Enter your bullet points here..
"What could possibly turn this around?"
What can turn things around instantly in your home is YOU having a clear plan of action. And you can get started with 5 short lessons.
Enter your bullet points here..
Sibling School is for you if...
You're tired of not knowing how to deal with the fighting
You want a clear plan without second guessing all the time
You know something has to change, you need some peace
You want a really easy place to start
Enter your bullet points here..
Exactly what's inside Sibling School
Lesson #1- Conflict Clarity
Exactly why your kids are fighting
You've been told your kid are fighting because "that's just what siblings do"
But that's not exactly helpful when your home feels chaotic.
Discover 2 powerful hidden reasons underneath sibling fighting and exactly what to do about them. No more guessing.
You can't solve the problem if you don't know what's causing it. This lesson gives you clarity.
Lesson #2 - Fighting Fuel
The common mistakes that secretly fuel conflict and keep you stuck
Most parents aren't aware of the common responses that actually increase sibling fighting.
The truth is, you've never been given any tools that actually work. And doing the wrong things when your kids fight is creating an unwanted cycle that repeats.
In this lesson, discover the 6 common mistakes that fuel rivalry and how to stop them for good.
Let go of what doesn't work to make room for what does.
Lesson #3 - Conflict Plan
Exactly what to do in the moment
It's not the actual conflict that is creating the most overwhelm for most parents. It's not knowing what to do when the fight happens!
Stop reacting in the moment (and then feeling guilty afterwards) and start responding with a plan.
This is the lesson that changes everything. Learn the 3 Step Conflict Circle plan - one that you can repeat no matter what the fight is about.
Lesson #4 - Say This
Exact what-to-say scripts for every fight your kids throw at you
Your kids believe the things you tell them. Your words hold so much power. Use it wisely.
Remove the mental load of what to say when your kids tattle, say it's no fair, use mean words or just bicker all the time.
And just as important, learn to remove the words that fuel the fighting. This lesson is one you'll keep coming back to.
Lesson #5 - The Calm Plan
Stay calm in the face of chaos, even when your kids don't
Do you find yourself yelling, threatening and getting annoyed the minute you hear bickering or fighting?
You're not alone! Most parents find this to be one of the biggest challenges with conflict.
In this lesson, learn 4 Calming Swaps so you can start responding with calm, even when your kids are not.
Join Sibling School
Change your home for less than a dinner out
$99 $34
SECURE
CHECKOUT
MONEY BACK
GUARANTEE
Meet your new coach
Hitting, screaming, massive fights were my normal many times. My deeply feeling kids didn't just know how to stay calm and express themselves! And I didn't know how to stay calm myself, I yelled far more than I care to admit.
Somewhere along the way I decided something needed to change with me before my kids could learn new skills.
I became very intentional about the way I showed up when my kids fought, and that's what I made all the difference.
I'm now obsessed with helping parents show up in a brand new way, so that your kids can show up differently too. You absolutely can change your family, and I'd love to help you do it.
I've walked over 100 parents through my full sibling program, working with many of them 1:1. I know exactly what is going to move you from sibling chaos to confidence and peace.
Colleen Quan, Certified Positive Parent Coach
Peace for your family is possible. Take the action your family deserves
Unbeatable value in just 5 Lessons
Only $34
Usually $99 65% OFF!
Got Questions?
If you have questions not shown here, simply reach out to colleen@heartstringparentcoaching.ca
- What ages is this for?This program was designed for ages 2 and up. All of the root causes, action plans and scripts work for a wide range of ages.
- How do I get access?The moment you invest, you will set up a password to access your videos and PDF Guides. You have lifetime access!
- Will this program really work?If you apply the lessons you learn in the program to your family, I am 100% confident you will see a change in your home. Remember change starts with you! Once you change your responses, it changes the result. *If you need a more robust sibling program, I suggest the full Sibling Solution course.
- Does this work for neurodiverse kids?This program is researched backed and designed around positive parenting, which has been found the most effective method of changing behaviour in the long term. I do not directly address neurodiverse children in this program, but it is likely you will be able to apply these lessons to all of your children
- How does the money back guarantee work?You are backed by a 14 day money back guarantee. If you apply the lessons in the program and don't feel it is working for you, just reach out for a full refund. *If you need a more robust sibling program, I suggest the full Sibling Solution course.
- 01Customer
- 02Payment
Contact information
Edit
Edit
Payment information
ONE TIME OFFER
Add the Sibling Hitting Program for $27 $12!
40 Minute Sibling Aggression Video program and support PDF Guides
Exactly what to do when kids get aggressive with a sibling
Learn the C.R.I.E.S. Framework and the 3 Step Strike Solution, so you know exactly WHY your kids are hitting and what to do
No more "I can't let you hit", but nothing ever changes!
Enter your bullet points here..
Add to cart$12.00
- Total payment
- Sibling School$34
- Sibling Hitting Handbook$12
- Discount
- Shipping$0
- Sales tax$0
- Today's payment
- Sibling School$0
- Sibling Hitting Handbook$12
- Discount
- Shipping$0
- Sales tax$0
- Future payments
- Sibling School$34
- Discount$0
- Shipping$0
- Sales tax$0
All prices in USD
Processing...